Blessing Karami: The beautiful missing university lady found dead in Abuja

By Dansu Peter 

A NOUN student, Blessing Karami, a university student declared missing few days ago has been found dead in Abuja, an emerging report according The Whistler says 

The family of the victim broke the news on Wednesday evening, the reporter says. 

The deceased who was a student of National Open University of Nigeria (NOUN), was declared missing after leaving her place of work in Garki, Abuja.

Meanwhile, the police had arrested one Aminu, the boyfriend to the deceased who was questioned regarding her disappearance.

Reports have it that the 26-year-old Blessing went missing after leaving her place of work before time with the office key, which was said to be usual.

According to The Whistler, it correspondent had visited the Divisional Police Headquarters, Durumi, on Wednesday morning where Aminu was being held.

Karami was also at the station explaining to the Divisional Police Officer (DPO), that on Tuesday evening when he left the station, he received a strange call giving details about the sister’s body but it turned out to be false.

“The caller said he saw a female body in Idu, so we asked him to describe what she was wearing, and he told us exactly what we were told my sister wore to office the day she went missing,” the brother had explained to the police.

According to Karami, after he kept trying to contact the DPO and it was not going through, he had to go to the police station at Karmo, but upon reaching there with a group of policemen, the caller kept toying with them as he kept changing locations until they got tired and left.

In a follow up call later to Karami, he confirmed to THE WHISTLER that his sister has truly died.

“We saw her decomposed body in the bush here at Karmo, it’s not something we can move, we have to arrange with the environmental people to come and help us pack.

“We cannot travel with it. We just have to bury it here. It seems she died for days due to the nature of the decomposition,” Karami said sadly while trying to sound strong.

Attempts to speak with the FCT Police command were unsuccessful.

Also Hope Jonathan, one of the police officers that handled the case at Durumi police station, before it was transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Development, could not be reached as of press time.

Moyo Lawal leaked s$x tape: She gave consent for the recording, here is a proof in the video (too raw)

The actress was spotted in the raw video moaning under the unidentified guy who is enjoying himself. 

Annoyingly, Moyo knew she was being recorded. What could be the motive? 

CLICK HERE TO WATCH THE VIDEO OF MOYO LAWAL

Meet Olivia Bentley, a sex therapist who rescues marriages by sleeping with troubled clients

By Dansu Peter 

Olivia Bentley is a 46-year-old sex therapist from Boise, Idaho, in the United States. Olivia, however, is not your typical therapist; she infuses her work with a distinctive perspective that is creating a stir in the intimacy and relationship communities.

Olivia, who has been in the sex industry for 15 years, told the New York Post that she uses her wealth of knowledge and experience to save countless marriages.

Her unorthodox methods include offering emotional support, hosting intimate one-to-three-hour sessions where she imparts saucy tips, and, believe it or not, even jumping into bed with clients for some hands-on education.

While some may raise their eyebrows at her methods, Olivia claims to have saved hundreds of marriages with her sex therapy. One of the key elements of Olivia’s philosophy is that it’s “unfair” for women to get married and neglect their husbands’ sexual needs

BREAKING: Court jails TikToker, Okoye Blessing 3yrs over false olosho accusation of Eniola Badmus

By Dansu Peter 

A high court has sentenced a female tiktoker, Okoye Blessing to three years imprisonment for cyberstalking Nollywood actress, Eniola Badmus with pimp allegations via the TikTok. 

A judge in the ruling gave Miss Okoye an option of paying a fine of N150,000 in lieu of jail time

Recalled Okoye had accused Nollywood star actress, Eniola of arranging girls for politicians. She has since apologized to her actress, but she insisted she must go to court to seek justice. 

Details shortly 

Young Chef and entrepreneur, Agbeke Timileyin celebrates birthday with special pupils in Badagry, donates school items

By Dansu Peter 

A young professional chef and entrepreneur, Miss Olaitan Agbeke Oluwatimileyin, has donated some schooling aids to special pupils in some public primary schools in Badagry Local Government Area of Lagos State.

The young chef, Timileyin, who recently celebrated her birthday, is the CEO of OlartB Catering and Decoration. She made the donation to the pupils of Local Authority Primary School, Ajara, and Ansar-u-deen Muslim Primary School, Badagry, in celebration of her birthday.

During her visit to the school with her staff and trainees, Timileyin donated a significant number of school bags and plastic chairs to the special pupils of the two public primary schools with special children in Badagry, Lagos.

The young entrepreneur expressed joy and fulfillment as she said the donation had been a longtime wish for the past 8 years. That she loves making people, especially the Indigents, smile.

She said, "This project has been in my mind for the past 8 years; it's a privilege, and I love seeing other people smile through the little I have," she told News peddlers. 

On why she chose those two schools, she said she chose the school because they are schools for special pupils and that sometimes ago she had discovered that most of the special pupils do not have chairs and school bags. "The excitement on the students faces is my joy, which was the major reason why I went there. It's not that I have a lot of money to do this, but I believe it's worth doing. It shouldn't be until you have a mansion or buy cars before you can help those in need; with the little you have, you can put some smiles on someone's face, if you have the spirit."

"I am super excited to be among the children. I also appreciate the teachers. They are doing a good job. I see them go through lots of rigor in handling and attending to the students. I saw how the teachers made do with sign language to explain my mission to the special students. This is wonderful," Timileyin said after the donation.

She said that though she is not so rich, people should endeavor to express love to others by giving, even from the little they have. She added that people should learn the habit of giving to those in need to help society grow.

Her office is located in Badagry. She is good at what she does. She specializes in making beautiful and delicious cakes, snacks, and small chops. She is also an event decorator and planner. As a professional chef, she cooks delicious meals for both small, moderate, and large parties.

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Minister impregnates his alluring Deputy, says it was "office accident"

By Dansu Peter 

The Minister of Primary, Secondary and Technical Education (EPST) in the Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC), Tony Mwaba Kazadi, in a shocking confession has admitted impregnating his Deputy Minister, Aminata Namasia, saying it was "office accident" 

Tony and Aminata have had a love affair going on for quite some time now. They work together and feelings grew deeper despite the fact that they’re both married.

This was revealed by a DC reporter known as Lungila John on Twitter.

The citizens of DRC lambasted the minister and his deputy, saying they portrayed bad conduct and showed proof of lack of morals in the country.

Although, Deputy Minister, Aminata Namasia, has been a good role model until this incident occurred.

Meanwhile, Aminata opted not to address the scandal when the story hit social media space a few days ago but instead demanded that her privacy be respected.

Aminata, posted on twitter, “beyond my official and public duties, I have a life that must be respected by all. A right guaranteed to all Congolese by our Constitution. Tarnishing my image should not be a tolerated habit.

“Indeed, it could harm not only my commitments, but also the image of my married male colleagues and their homes.

“On the eve of the electoral contests scheduled for December of this year, political detractors can attack my opinions and political actions rather than opting for practices tending to smear my person.”

Chef Hilda Baci; Exhaustion of Governor Sanwo-olu's Detrabalised Tendencies

By Abubakar Yusuf

It is now incontrovertible to the public glare devoid of any form of pretences or political undertones, that Lagos state Governor, Babajide Olusola Sanwo-olu had maintained the legacies of our heroes past, through the sustenance of good and sane legacies.

It had also underscores cynicism of those playing politics with human lives with a view to attaining their selfish economic growth and political feat , without recourse to posterity.

It was not in the public domain, the case of the Lagos state Governor's chef, Hilda Baci a non- Lagosian , but operated in the first citizen of Lagos state kitchen in the last four years as official cook engaged by the state government.

This development is far away from public beliefs and consternation that everything about Lagos state Governor, from the private to official aides are all from one extraction, or to nail the nail on the head from "Yoruba" extraction.

This is one out of Lagos state Governor's many gestures towards ordinary and average Nigerians towards realizing their ambition and potentials no matter where they came from in this part of the country. 

His strong believe in the Nigerianisation of all and sundry irrespective of creed, colour, religion, section and extraction had come to full glare without any iota of pretences. 

For providing the enabling environment from the kitchen of not only the first citizen of Lagos state, but a sitting Governor of a state portrayed the high level of tolerance, mien and candor displayed by Governor Babajide Olusola Sanwo-olu of Lagos state.

This has revealed that the activities of naysayers is been countered by the continuous display of patriotic zeal and disposition in the administration of Lagos state over the years.

The Governor had also proven wrong those whose strong believe in Lagos is for one particular section wrong in his appointments, employments and engagements of Nigerians in the cosmopolitan Lagos state.

Posterity will continue to judge the Lagos state Governor, for not only providing the enabling environment and opportunity, but solidarity visit to his chef Hilda Baci including a call by the Nigeria's Vice President, Professor Yemi Osinbanjo.

For chef Hilda Baci who is on her way to winning or eventually won the converted trophy, it will be a plus not only for the leadership of Lagos state, but Nigeria at large with rare display of leadership traits by Governor Babajide Olusola Sanwo-olu of Lagos state.

With this development towards the second lap of his administration, no doubt Lagos state will witness not only uneven developments, but leadership with both human and zeal to dispose raw qualities of leadership to the good people of Lagos state.

All hands must be on deck to support the second coming of Governor Babajide Olusola Sanwo-olu who had not only displayed transparency and accountability, but equity and equal opportunities among Lagosians and non Lagosians.

ABUBAKAR YUSUF, A Public Affairs Analyst, Writes from Abuja and can be reached on [email protected].

Why I assaulted the Policeman, Seun Kuti

By Dansu Peter 

The Afro-beat top musician, Seun Kuti has said the Policeman man he slapped in the viral video attempted to kill him and his family. 

Seun made the claim in a Saturday night Instagram post. In the post, Ṣeun Kuti noted that the police officer in question had apologised over an alleged attempt to murder him and his family.

Kuti said, “He tried to kill me and my family. I have the proof but I no dey chase clout.

“He has apologised and I have agreed not to press charges. Make una mind una business make the poor guy no lose his job.”

Meanwhile, the Inspector General of Police has ordered the arrest of Seun Kuti. The police Chief also ordered full and immediate investigation of the viral video. 

Following the IG’s order for his arrest, Mr Kuti in another Instagram post, said, “I welcome the investigation and will give my full cooperation! I also pray to the IG that whoever is wrong should be indicted.”

Idan: All you need to know about the trending new netizens' slang?

Idan this, Idan that, what's Idan, who is Idan? 

The hashtag ‘Idan’ is the latest Nigerian street slang that has been trending on social media for some days now.

The word has become a prevalent way of expressing admiration and respect for influential and wealthy individuals in Nigerian culture.

What is Idan?

It is a Yoruba word meaning “magic” or “charming”. Other synonyms are supernatural, exceptional, wonder, glamorous, fascinating, etc.

Examples of its usage on social media

Below are some examples of how ‘Idan’ is being used in Nigerian parlance:

Example: Idans do not take notes in class, but get As during exams

Meaning: Someone who is super intelligent and exceptional in what he does

Example: Idans withdraw money without joining ATM queues

Meaning: Someone who is influential in what he does

Example: Aliko Dangote is a real Idan when it comes to business.

Meaning: Someone who is good with business or a very successful businesswoman

As a Lawyer; I wash my husband’s clothes, cook & serve him fresh food daily: It doesn’t reduce me’ – Beautiful Lady Says

By Dansu Peter 

A Nigerian lawyer who is a wife to a pastor pastor, Princess Jemaimah, has listed all she does for her husband daily., stating that it doesn’t reduce her in any way. 

“I AM A LAWYER! I Wash My Husband’s Clothes (Daily)! I Make Him Fresh Food (Daily)! I Serve Him His Food & Hold The Bowl For Him To Wash His Hands. I Clean The House (Daily)! I Banng Him (Daily) E T C!” she wrote in a Facebook post on Wednesday, April 19, 2023. 

“It Doesn’t Reduce Me In Anyway. It’s Actually An Honour To Love & Care For Someone So Selflessly. Most Times, We Do This Chores Together. I Will Say He Runs More Errands For Me Than I Do For Him Sef. Brethren, A Happy Marriage Is A Place Of Unconditional Love, Forgiveness & Selfless Service.”

Photos credit: Princes Jemaimah 

Lucky Consumer Wins Car in Bigi Watch and Win 3.0 Promo

BY JUMOKE OWOOLA.

Bigi, Naija’s favorite fun and refreshing range of soft drinks for every moment has rewarded a lucky consumer, Mrs. Dove Akinadewo, with a brand-new car and other exciting prizes for emerging the grand prize winner of its 3rd Bigi Watch and Win Promo in Lagos.

Other consumers who were selected for the raffle draw event, held at Silverbird Cinemas also got consolation prizes which included laptops, Bigi products, blenders, printers, air pods, and several exciting prizes.

Biola Aransiola, Assistant Brand Manager, Bigi, reaffirmed the brand’s goal and commitment to creating refreshing experiences for its consumers, especially movie and entertainment lovers in the country. “With the Watch and Win Promo, the Bigi brand offers movie lovers an exciting, enduring and thrilling experience that will consolidate consumers’ loyalty,” she affirmed.

She further emphasized that the promo demonstrates the brand’s commitment to the growth of the movie industry and entertainment sector by adding value to lives through rewarding movie and cinema lovers.

The ‘Watch and Win Promo’ is an event flagged off by Bigi drinks in December 2021 to excite movie and cinema lovers in Lagos and Abuja by offering them rewards for their viewing experiences.

Mrs. Dove Akinadewo, a Bigi Cherry Cola lover and winner of the promo expressed her excitement and lauded the Bigi brand for engaging consumers with memorable experiences that changes lives across the country. “I am so happy. I am now a brand-new car owner and I have Bigi drinks to thank for this. Whenever I watch movies now, I think of Bigi drinks and take my favorite Cherry Cola to heighten my movie experience”, she said cheerfully.

The Watch and Win Promo inspires exciting movie experiences that offer movie lovers and consumers a great reward for their money while enjoying their favorite movies with family and friends.

With the third edition of the promo, the Bigi brand has heightened the excitement and anticipation of the initiative as movie lovers in Lagos and Abuja keep looking forward to storming the Silverbird cinemas to engage with the brand which offers its unique and thrilling experience with its array of 13 fantastically refreshing variants from its portfolio.

Apostle Sulaiman impregnated and Aborted for me thrice - Nollywood actress, Halima Abubakar

Halima Abubakar, the actress, has alleged that she was pregnant on three occasions for Apostle Johnson Suleman, the general overseer of Omega Fire Ministries International.

In September last year, Halima had called out Suleman on social media while claiming the pair once dated.

But Suleman threatened to sue her for “defamatory statements”.

The matter appeared to have died down afterward as reports of Halima’s battle with an undisclosed illness surfaced.

In a recent interview, however, the film star claimed the pair dated for “six years”.

The actress also said when rumours of their alleged affair first started making the rounds, she sought the cleric’s advice on what to say but “he told me to go and die”.

In a now-viral clip of the interview, Halima was asked if she was ever pregnant for Suleman.

“Yes, I was once pregnant for him,” she said.

When further asked why she did not keep the pregnancy, she said: “When I lost the baby, he was crying, you would think it’s real because he was shedding tears that I lost his child.

“It’s crazy. I got pregnant three times for him. The last one got me bleeding…I had to take tablets to stop it…”

On how long it took the bleeding to stop, she replied “for four years, I actually just came out since I have been in a long spiritual battle…the blood just stopped rushing, you won’t believe it.”

In another clip from the interview, Halima alleged that the cleric slept with her while she was bleeding.

“He was sleeping with me even while I was bleeding. That’s the dangerous part of it, and he was telling me he couldn’t sleep with any other person, that’s why,” she added.

“The whole thing took me unaware because I was naive and not a spiritual person. Even when I’m on my period, he does that (sleeps with me).”

Halima said she is ready to go to court to prove that the pair had an affair.

Source: TheCable 

Lady places ₦3million offer for any man that could get her pregnant

A lady from Abuja posted an inquiry looking for a man to get her pregnant. The woman claimed she has enticing offers for him and is looking for a great, gorgeous man to impregnate her.

Uwaoma Susan Joseph, a social media personality, publicized the lady’s plea on Facebook while keeping her identity secret.

From Susan’s post:

American Fast Rising Pop Star, 'TATA' Storms Abuja for Concert

By Dansu Peter 

All has been set for the popular fast rising American pop star, TATA to storm the Congress hall, Transcorp Hilton Hotel Abuja, Nigeria for a concert. 

TATA, whose real name is Daniel Sule is a fast rising African American Artiste who has blazed the trail in the Music Industry with his soothing Afro pop music that his listeners love.

Tata was born in Atlanta Georgia, USA. He is known to be Multi Talented as he is a singer, performer, dancer, music producer and also the master mind behind Tata music and entertainment record label.

He earned a Bachelor’s Degree in art from Cambridge University Manchester, London, where he began his music journey.

Tata has always been known for his exceptional stage performances and simple lyrics that always resonates with his audience.

His Debut Single Titled “In America” was released september 8th, 2022. The musical video was shot in Florida,USA.

The single was showcased on several media platforms which included Social Plus Africa, the official content provider for Equity TV and other Broadcasting Stations in Africa, amongst others.

TATA is set to stage another live in Concert at Congress hall Transcorp Hilton Hotel Abuja, Nigeria. It will be held overnight on the 20th of December from 6pm to 6am.

The tickets are available in all KFC eatery, nation wide.

The oyinbo coronal is set to also drop a fresh video soon.

EXCLUSIVE: Photos and Videos from the ongoing burial rites of Late Queen Elizabeth in UK

By Dansu Peter 

 

List of Saints whom God endorsed their polygamy in the Bible - Reno Omokri schools critic Priest

By Reno Omokri 

‘Show Me Polygamy In The Bible’: Here You Go!

I was rather surprised when a gentleman gave a challenge, which was obviously directed at me, to show him where polygamy is mentioned in Scripture. My surprise was not at his audacity. Rather, it was in the fact that I had provided several verses in the piece he was reacting to. 

And even beyond that, anyone who has read any of my writings on spiritual matters, knows I do not write even one paragraph without citing Scriptural authority. That is my nature. I fear God too much to pass of my opinions as Scripture. 

Well, perhaps some people do not read Scripture, if they want to know where polygamy is written in Scripture, I will oblige them. The word polygamy is less than 600 years old. The word polygamy was first used in the 1590s. Please research it yourself. I deal in facts!

The word polygamy was not in use when Scripture was written, about 2000 years ago (some Scripture are older than 2000 years). However, the practice of polygamy, which is described as one man marrying more than one wife, is in Scripture. 

Below are multiple verses from Scripture where the practice of polygamy is observed by righteous men (I carefully omitted polygamy by men Scripture regarded as unrighteous).

1. “If he marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights.”-Exodus 21:10.

2. “If a man has two wives, and he loves one but not the other, and both bear him sons but the firstborn is the son of the wife he does not love, when he wills his property to his sons, he must not give the rights of the firstborn to the son of the wife he loves in preference to his actual firstborn, the son of the wife he does not love.”-Deuteronomy 21:15-16. 

3. “When Esau was forty years old, he married Judith daughter of Beeri the Hittite, and also Basemath daughter of Elon the Hittite.”-Genesis 26:34.

4. “Jacob made love to Rachel also, and his love for Rachel was greater than his love for Leah. And he worked for Laban another seven years.” Genesis 29:30

5. “Abigail  quickly got on a donkey and, attended by her five female servants, went with David’s messengers and became his wife. David had also married Ahinoam of Jezreel, and they both were his wives. But Saul had given his daughter Michal, David’s wife, to Paltiel son of Laish, who was from Gallim.”-1 Samuel 25:42-44. 

6. “Ashhur the father of Tekoa had two wives, Helah and Naarah.”-1 Chronicles 4:5.

Another instance of polygamy is Gideon. Scripture says Gideon was called by God in Judges 6:11, which says “The LORD is with you, O mighty man of valor.”

Now, this man whom the ‘Lord was with’, was a polygamist. We see this in Judges 8:20, which says “Gideon had seventy sons of his own, since he had MANY WIVES.”

Take the case of Abijah. He was King of Judah and David’s great grandson. Scripture describes him in 2 Chronicles 13:10 as a man who did not forsake God, and in 2 Chronicles 13:11, he is described as a man who carried out “the requirements of the LORD our God.”

Yet, this righteous and God fearing king had many wives. We see this in 2 Chronicles 13:21:

“Abijah grew strong, married fourteen wives, and became the father of twenty-two sons and sixteen daughters.”

In the case of King Joash, he was a minor when he became king. So he was out under the regency of priests (incidentally, the man who challenged me is himself a priest). 

Now, it was the leading priest of God, a man called Jehoiada, who himself selected two wives for the young King Joash. And Scripture described Joash as doing “what was right in the eyes of the Lord”. We see this in 2 Chronicles 24:1-3:

“Joash was seven years old when he became king, and he reigned in Jerusalem forty years. His mother’s name was Zibiah; she was from Beersheba. Joash did what was right in the eyes of the Lord all the years of Jehoiada the priest. Jehoiada chose two wives for him, and he had sons and daughters.”

So, if the act of marrying two wives was “right in the eyes of the Lord”, why is this priest who challenged me now saying another thing?

What about David, who was given his own wives, not by a priest; but by God Himself? We see that in 2 Samuel 12:8:

“I gave your master's house to you, and your master's wives into your arms. I gave you all Israel and Judah. And if all this had been too little, I would have given you even more.”

The fact of the matter is that some people are taking dogmas of their church denomination and passing it off as scriptural doctrines. 

Scripture was not written in English. It was written in Hebrew, Aramaic and Greek. 

For instance, many people take Christ’s words in Matthew 19:5 as being against polygamy. That verse says in English:

“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’?

However, the actual Koine Greek word used there is gynaiki. That word does not actually mean wife. It actually means woman. That word itself is a Koine Greek translation of the Hebrew word bə·’iš·tōw. 

To put that verse in proper context, you need to read another verse in the New Testament that quotes that same verse. 

We see that in 1 Corinthians 6:16:

“Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.”

You can see that in 1 Corinthians 6:16, Paul is using that same verse to refer to what a man does with a prostitute. Now, is a prostitute a wife? Of course not. 

Now, I will not counsel any man to go into polygamy, and I am not a polygamists, neither do I have plans to be. However, it is either a function of ignorance, or just a demonic lie, to say that Scripture forbids polygamy. 

Scripture does forbid polygamy for Bishops and elders, as we see in 1 Timothy 3:2:

“A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach.”

When you hear people saying “if”, “if”, and more “if”, they are actually not quoting Scripture. They are in reality quoting THEIR OPINIONS! 

Reno Omokri

 

Gospeller. Business Insider Magazine’s Business Influencer or the Year, 2022. Deep Thinker. #1 Bestselling author of Facts Versus Fiction: The True Story of the Jonathan Years. Avid traveller. Hollywood Magazine Film Festival Humanitarian of the Year, 2019.

Polygamy is Godly and scriptural - Reno Omokri

By Reno Omokri via Facebook 

Dear Uche Chuta,

Thank you for your question. I generally would prefer to mind my own business, but as this is a direct question to me from you, a gubernatorial candidate, about Yul, who relates very well with me, I will respond to it. In my personal opinion, I don’t think Polygamy is a sin. Scripture is crystal clear that God Himself gave David many wives-2 Samuel 12:8. Abraham, Jacob, and many Godly men were polygamists, and it was a regular way of life in Scripture amongst everyday people. For instance, Samuel’s father, Elkanah, was a polygamist-1 Samuel 1:2.

Polygamy is only forbidden for Bishops, overseers and elders in the church-1 Timothy 3:2. Monogamy is a Western construct, not a Christian one. 

The modern marriage vows we use in Black Africa is a curse. It is not Scriptural. If you, Uche, can show It to me in Scripture, I will give you $50,000. And you know of my financial ability more than most people. It was adopted from Europe. It is very hard for a single woman to satisfy the libido of a normal man. And this is the reason we have such a high rate of what we call cheating in our society. Compare the rate of cheating in Europe and America, with that of Saudi Arabia and Jordan and my point becomes clear. 

Sadly, Black Africans have accepted this Western construct as a Christian one. Which is why we are now becoming tolerant of same sex marriage, and are very intolerant of polygamy. Meanwhile, you find polygamy in Scripture-Exodus 21:10, and the very thought of the other is abominable according to Scripture-Leviticus 18:22. 

I will not counsel any man to marry more than one wife, but I will say that polygamy is by far better than adultery and fornication. But, these are my personal views. 

#TableShaker

Who is a woman? By Mesi Deyon Idowu | Dedicated to all virtuous women on WWD

By Mesi Deyon Idowu 

Having breasts, vagina, and hips doesn't make you a woman.

A woman is the one who feeds a man with encouragement and ideas.

A woman is the one who helps a man to save and invest wisely.

A woman does not run her mouth with sarcasm and insult just to prove a point, rather her words are gracious and can heal a broken heart.

A woman is the one that knows when to talk and to keep quite.

A woman is the one that doesn't leak secret.

A woman is the one that is contented with what she has, and not the one that sells her self for material things.

A woman is a manager, a caretaker, a womb that can nature and birth destinies.

A woman doesn't do trending things, but she is reserved and has a taste of a Queen.

A woman doesn't look down on any man because of his present state of life and financial status, rather she encourages any man to get better.

A woman is the one that does not just bears babies, but bear ideas and inspiration anytime anywhere.

A woman is the one a man can cry on her shoulders and not feel humiliated for doing so nor lose his value.

A woman is not the one that deceive a man just to eat his money, but the one who is honest and sincere.

A woman is not the one that makes men feel terrible, but the one a man can run to for comfort.

A woman is the one that will spoil a man with honour and respect because there lies her strength and integrity.

A woman is an influence, a nation and a helper.

Many are females but only few can be called a woman.

Now ask yourself today,

Am I a woman?

Mesi Deyon Idowu wrote from Badagry, Lagos, Nigeria

How side chicks preventing many marriages from crashing - Relationship expert, Blessing Okoro

Self-acclaimed relationship expert and sex therapist, Blessing Okoro Nkiruka popularly known as Blessing CEO has offered insight as to why most men are still married despite the crises that rocks their homes.

The social media influencer gave the explanation in a video she  shared on her Instagram handle, where she emphatically said that most are still tied down to their matrimonial homes because they have side chicks who fill the gap during such crisis pending when they resolve them with their spouses.

Pastor's wife gets serial death threats for exposing randy husband

•Son’s life in danger as father accuses him of leaking information to mother

•Sister in-law teams up with new wife to fight legal wife

•Husband’s friends begging legal wife to forgive husband

•Italy church suspends husband pending outcome of investigation

By our editor 

The centre is no longer at ease in the household of Mr. Vivian Olusola Omololu Wiwoloku, an Italy-based Pastor following the allegation of infidelity leveled against him by his legal wife, Mrs Bolaji Veronica Wiwoloku, also based in Italy.

Mrs Bolaji Wiwoloku who spoke with journalists weeks back, revealed that her husband of over 30 years secretly married another woman, a Nigerian based lawyer, Modupe Nancy Olajiga otherwise known as Modupe Nancy Wiwoloku since 29th July, 2019. An act described as bigamy under the law.

Aside from getting married illegally to Modupe Olajiga while still legally married to her; Mr. Wiwoloku was also accused of sleeping with different women in Italy, an act that once led to him being suspended from a Christian Pastoral Centre in Rome when he went for Pastoral training.

As if these were not enough, Mr. Wiwoloku moved out of their matrimonial home in 2019 under the pretense of not having much time for Pastoral duties. It later, after a series of investigations that the wife confirmed that her husband had another wife in Nigeria whom he had secretly married to.

While the story went viral on different platforms, Mr Wiwoloku tried to exonerate himself.

The dust was yet to settle on the matter when Mrs Bolaji Wiwoloku, again, cried out alleging death threats to her life by the trio of Mr Olusola Wiwoloku; his sister, Asteria Nihinlola Akinfolarin (Nee Wiwoloku); and Modupe Nancy Olajiga, otherwise known as Modupe Nancy Wiwoloku; the new wife.

Not only this, Bolaji Wiwoloku went further to narrate how her husband has been making life unbearable for their last born, Mr. Ibukun Wiwoloku, whom he has continuously accused of leaking out all his escapades.

In a phone chat with selected media houses, the mother of three said she had to cry out to the whole world for her safety and that of her son. “I am crying out loud to the whole world to save me from my husband, his sister Asteria and the new wife, , Modupe Nancy Olajiga. She is a lawyer based in Ado-Ekiti, but currently on Study Leave at the University of Ibadan.

“It has been confirmed that my husband took my name to a spiritualist with the evil intention of harming me. I have it on record that his sister, Asteria Nihinlola Akinfolarin, has been telling whoever cares to listen to her intention to make me suffer. Majority of her threats were recorded for empirical evidence.

•Mr Vivian Olusola Wiwoloku
and Modupe Olajiga

Not satisfied, Asteria called my neighbor accusing him of linking me up with the media. This is untrue. She also promised to deal with the neighbor at the appropriate time. My husband up till now is still denying marrying another wife, even when I showed him the marriage certificate.

•Mr Vivian Olusola Wiwoloku

and Modupe Olajiga

What is my offence? “I have tried to see where I went wrong in all our over thirty (30) years of marriage. I was a homely and dedicated wife. Despite the fact that my husband has no visible job besides pastoring a church and managing an NGO which we established, I can proudly say that my African shop is one of the biggest in Italy. And this I used to assist him, not knowing he was even using part of the money to commit bigamy. The clothes he and the lady wore on their wedding day were brought by me. He told me he needed gifts for his sibling and unknown to me, it was for the wedding.

“I went further to investigate and found out that the new wife, Modupe Nancy Olajiga, a lawyer, made the first move. She seduced my husband during one of his trips to Nigeria. By the time my husband knew she had been married to four (4) different men before him; they both hurriedly went to the court to solemnize the unholy marriage. The woman at the centre of the controversy has been threatening to deal with me too. She told me that even husbands living in Nigeria with their spouses are not safe, not to talk of someone staying in Europe and allowing her husband to come to Nigeria on holiday.

“Modupe called me illiterate despite the fact that I left the higher institution when she was still in secondary school. She has been boasting that nobody can take away my husband from her.

“The trio, my husband, Olusola, his sister, Asteria and Modupe who is a serial husband snatcher, have connived together threatening me”.

•Mrs Bolaji Veronica Wiwoloku
(Legal wife)

On the allegation of her husband threatening their last son, Ibukun Wiwoloku? “May God save us from trouble?” It wasn’t Ibukun that leaked his escapades. In fact, not until the bubble burst in the media, Ibukun and his siblings (my children) were not in the picture. I did my own investigations myself and got the facts.

“Ibukun has not been to Nigeria for many years; Was it Ibukun that showed me the marriage certificate? Was he the one that gave me the secret of the new wife’s habit of snatching husbands? Was it Ibukun that showed me where the new wife took my car to in Nigeria? Olusola was just looking for excuses. He has stopped talking to his own son because of a new wife he married illegally. The wife he was not proud to call his wife openly. Nothing bad must happen to me and my children.

“As for my Sister-in-law, Asteria, her rantings were on the houses and land purchased. She has forgotten when I was her Messiah, when the roads were stormy for her. She has forgotten how I rescued her from the jaws of death in those days. So I am not surprised at her evil actions. She is an evil woman with a dirty mind”.

Going further, Mrs Bolaji Wiwoloku who has vowed to save her home and get justice for the bigamy committed by her husband said that her sister-in-law Asteria Nihinola Akinfolarin(Nee Wiwoloku) is completely envious of her and her stable home.

“Truly, I met my husband through her, does that make me her stooge? My husband had nothing when we met. He was residing in Italy and it was when I got there that I learnt he lied to me he was a doctor, that he was a successful man e.t.c. but the love I had for him superseded everything that I forgave him. Lies run through his veins.

“I did a survey and learnt that opening an African store where we reside is the antidote for survival. I opened a shop and God answered my prayer. In all these, my husband has never spent a penny on our children, not to talk of me, his wife. I stumbled on a letter the sister (Asteria Nihinola) wrote to him 3 months after our marriage that he shouldn’t allow me to know “that secret”.

“The secret unfolded later over the years by knowing that my husband Olusola Vivian Wiwoloku is a womaniser, a lazy man who pretends to be a man of God. He calls himself pastor and affixes it to his name.

“Asteria has no home and she wants everyone to be like her. This is a woman who beat up her own mother-in-law. This is a woman who turned her father’s house into a brothel by bringing in different men until I called her aside to correct her. This was when she had a slight quarrel with her husband.

“When she was homeless, I gave her home, when she was hopeless; I gave her hope and succour. She still owes me, yet I didn’t bother her. She wants to inherit all that I laboured for even when she knew that her brother had little or no contributions to what is on ground.

“She is the architect of the problems on the ground. She advised my husband to hate me and my children. She cajoled him to alter our landed documents. I tried all I could to let peace reign but to her, it is a cowardly act. Enough of all this stupidity. Mumu don do. God has exposed her, Ondo is my second home, no evil fashioned against me shall prosper. My good fortune is giving them headache.

“Asteria is so dubious that she embezzled half of the money sent to her to buy lands for us. Not until I took the land business from her, that we were able to achieve something tangible. I can recollect a time we came to Nigeria to buy land, she bought her own with her name and husband as Mr and Mrs Akinfolarin; She told my husband to buy our own as Mr Sola Wiwoloku and family. I raised eyebrows by asking why, Asteria told me not to worry. It was later I got to know again that it was a pre-planned action. Asteria believed I must slave for her and the larger family.

•Mrs Bolaji Veronica Wiwoloku

(Legal wife)

“Sleeping enterprises is what Nigerians in Italy call my husband. He had no job but lived on me. You can verify this, when he is not sleeping, he will be out frolicking with ladies; irrespective of their ages.

“As for the so called newly wedded wife Modupe Nancy Olajiga who took them to a media house where they cooked up stories, she has been taking her relatives to my landed properties and telling whoever cares to listen that it was her inheritance. I want her to go and carry out research that she has come to a desert land as I am ready to take charge of all my properties.

“Well, no story as I have taken some of my possessions back legally and I will continue to do so until I take total control. Can you imagine a man that has not deemed it fit to take care of his children? A man that sleeps all day, goes out to commit fornication in the noon and make adultery his passion over the weekends.

“A man who even impregnated our househelp who is even related to him !!! A man who was sent out of an institution for sleeping around with ladies. I have endured all this while because of my children. I have remained calm because I love my husband.

“Many of his closest friends are not in support of what he did. They condemned all his actions, but can a Leopard change his colour? Even the Nigerian community here in Italy is not in support of his actions either .They believed that he was an ingrate. I have received calls and visitations from them too begging me to let it go, mostly those who knows what I have been through with him”

Asteria should leave one of my landed properties called “Industrial land” alone. She should stop harassing my tenants.

All efforts getting the duo of Mrs. Asteria Nihinlola Akinfolarin to speak to our reporters were futile. Same thing for Modupe Nancy Olajiga whom we learnt was on a study leave at the University of Ibadan.

Mr. Victor Olusola Omololu Wiwoloku’s phone wasn’t going as we learnt he had travelled back to Italy.

Culled: Editor's NG